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    How To Say Your Price - Sales Roleplay (Sales Call With Client)

    In a live sales call, Chris Do shows how to challenge a client's thinking and reveal the true cost of a premium brand to build trust, not just close a deal.

    Chris Do

    Chris Do

    Founder, The Futur™ · January 1, 2024

    Your Client Wants a New Logo. Now What?

    A prospect approaches you with a clear request. They need a new brand identity and logo design system. They’ve identified a business problem: their current look feels misaligned with their quality, attracting the wrong kind of leads and hindering the launch of new products. It feels cheap, and they want to feel premium.

    This is the moment where most creatives shift into sales mode. They hear the problem, see the opportunity, and begin to formulate a pitch. Their mind races with solutions, ready to prove they are the perfect person for the job.

    This is a mistake.

    In a live sales roleplay, The Futur’s founder Chris Do demonstrates a radically different approach. It’s a method rooted not in selling, but in serving. Not in persuasion, but in partnership. It begins with a simple, powerful operating principle: assume the client is wrong.

    Do doesn’t immediately accept the client's self-diagnosis. Instead, he begins a gentle but relentless interrogation of their core premise. When the client, played by The Futur’s Mo Ismail, suggests their primary goal is to attract more customers, Do pushes back. “Do you think by changing the identity that that’s going to do anything?”

    He isn’t being difficult. He is being a fiduciary, an advocate for the client’s business. He’s starting a conversation that will separate him from every other order-taker they could possibly hire.

    The Assumption Audit

    The client believes a better brand identity will solve their lead generation problem. Do identifies this for what it is: a hypothesis, not a fact. His job is not to build on that hypothesis, but to test it. He calls on the client to provide evidence for their belief.

    “I would love nothing more than to design a brand identity system for you,” Do begins, disarming the client. “However, I just need to check in with you… do you buy products that you love from companies that are very valuable where their logo and identity system is trash?”

    The question hangs in the air. It forces the client to move from abstract desire to concrete reality. The client admits that yes, sometimes they do.

    Do presses further. “Can you name more companies where that’s true versus false?”

    The client’s first and only example of a company with impeccable design is Apple, the gold standard. Do acknowledges this, but immediately points out how rare that is. “How many companies can you name that are on the Apple level experience?”

    Not many.

    Do already knows the answer. He has more evidence to support the opposite conclusion. He rattles off a list of highly valuable companies with unremarkable, or even poor, identity design: Hilton Hotels, Marriott, Norwegian Cruises. Their success is undeniable, yet their logos are not what drive their value.

    This is the work of a therapist, not a salesperson. As Do explains, a therapist is almost solely reliant on the person in front of them to tell them the truth. But truth is subjective. The therapist’s job is to ask, “Where have you seen this to be true? What evidence do you have that supports your observation?” This is the exact framework for a consultative sales call.

    • Assume Everything is Untrue: Do not take the client’s diagnosis at face value. They are busy running their business, not thinking deeply about design theory. Their conclusions are often unverified assumptions.
    • Act as a Critical Thinker: Your role is to be critical of their thoughts, not to be a jerk, but to be an advocate. Help them think through their own logic.
    • Request Evidence, Don’t Present Your Own: Instead of countering with your own opinions, ask the client to support their claims with their own experiences. This makes them co-investigators in their own problem, rather than adversaries in a debate.

    “I would hate for you to spend money building something in hopes of achieving a certain result when that’s not likely going to happen,” Do says. This single statement repositions the entire dynamic. He is no longer someone trying to get their money; he is someone trying to protect it.

    The Real "Why": From Leads to Legacy

    Once the initial, flawed premise of “a new logo equals more leads” is dismantled, the real motivation begins to surface. Do identifies two other factors the client mentioned: status and the launch of new products.

    This is where the emotional core of the project lies. It’s not about a direct, quantifiable ROI. It is about something much more human.

    He reflects the client's feelings back to them. “There’s a feeling here and you don’t want to feel like a subpar brand. You want to feel like a premium brand.” He also validates the second point. “You’re making new products and you need to launch things… you’ve outgrown the old container and to get a fresh start you need to change identity.”

    This is a an essential skill for anyone trying to master the art of the budget conversation. You must uncover the deeper needs beneath the surface request.

    This reframing connects with the client on a deeper level. The project is no longer a questionable marketing expense. It’s a necessary step for repositioning, for growth, for putting a new stamp on the company’s future. It’s a makeover. A fresh start. It’s about pride.

    The client, Mo, confirms this immediately. “The more you explain it, that is definitely the feeling that I have and the desire that I want.” He starts using Do’s language, confirming the need to feel proud and make the experience “premium.”

    This pivot is crucial. The conversation has shifted from a shaky, logic-based argument to a solid, emotion-based one. One is easily dismissed; the other is fundamental to the client's vision for their business.

    This is a sign of business maturity. Instead of fighting for a weak justification, Do guides the client to a stronger one. He validates their feelings and gives them the language to express their true goals. The project is now anchored to something real: the need for the business to evolve and present itself in a way that reflects its new direction and values.

    A Premium Logo Is Not a Premium Brand

    The client wants a premium experience. They agree to the idea in principle. Now, Do must ensure they understand what that commitment actually entails.

    He delivers a stark warning. “I need you to know that premium logos and experiences don’t come cheap. That’s why they’re premium.”

    This is not just about the cost of design. It’s about the cost of everything that follows. Using Apple as the benchmark again, Do breaks down the true meaning of a premium experience. It isn’t just a logo; it’s a thousand tiny signals sent from the product to the customer.

    These signals include:

    • The research and craftsmanship behind the design.
    • The quality of the paper and printing.
    • The texture of the plastic wrapper.
    • The precise friction of the box as it opens.
    • The art direction of the photography.
    • The copy on the website.

    “These are all little tiny signals that are sent from product to customer that they might not be able to articulate, but they feel,” Do explains. Clients often say they want a premium experience but are unwilling to back it up with the necessary investment across the board. This misalignment creates what Do calls “lipstick on a pig.”

    He is preparing the client for a much larger conversation about budget. He is managing expectations before a price is ever mentioned. He maps out the journey ahead: “We have to sit down and map out with you what all is included in the experience.”

    This is a critical step that most creatives skip. They are so eager to secure the logo project that they fail to educate the client on the total cost of ownership. A brilliant logo system is only as strong as its weakest application. If it’s slapped onto a cheap website or printed on flimsy business cards, the entire investment is wasted.

    Do secures the client’s commitment conceptually before moving to financials. “Are you committed to it?” he asks directly. The client confirms, but wants to know what that commitment looks like. The stage is set for the most important part of the conversation.

    The Conversation That Changes Everything

    With the need established and the definition of “premium” clarified, the conversation turns to money. The client, Mo, volunteers a number. “Definitely mid five figures or something like this… you know, with it being something that I didn’t think it would come cheap.”

    He clarifies this means a budget in the $50,000 to $60,000 range for the brand identity system.

    This is the moment of truth. Many consultants would hear this number and either accept it, negotiate it, or get scared by it. Do does none of these. He accepts it as a starting point and immediately broadens the frame.

    He tells the client that on top of the $60,000 for the identity, they need to be prepared for a much larger investment to execute it properly. He gives a ballpark figure. “We’re looking at another at least quarter million to $400,000,” Do states calmly. “How does that sit with you?”

    The client is stunned. “Way too much,” Mo replies.

    This is the logic test. Do is checking for alignment. “You’re going to spend $60,000 on a logo and you’re not prepared to spend in production for all the other touch points?” He lists them out: the website, social media assets, packaging, printing. He isn’t scolding; he is educating. “I’m just getting you prepared for how much money you’re going to spend if you want to create that experience.”

    This is where many roleplays break down, because the person playing the client often doesn’t operate a business at this scale. Do explains that for a company prepared to spend $60,000 on an identity, a rollout budget of several hundred thousand dollars is not just reasonable; it’s on the low end.

    He provides concrete examples of what real-world costs look like for this level of client:

    • Website Redesign: A site that properly reflects a new premium identity could cost anywhere from $40,000 to $80,000 alone.
    • Anthemic Videos: Creating high-quality media assets for a year-long campaign would be very difficult for less than that.
    • Conference Demos: Do recounts working with gaming companies for the E3 conference, where they would spend upwards of half a million dollars on a single 30-second product launch video.

    The numbers are relative. If the client had proposed a $10,000 budget for the logo, Do would have scaled the other numbers down accordingly. The point is not the absolute figure, but the ratio. Spending a disproportionate amount on the logo without a commitment to execute it is a waste of time and money.

    “If you actually hire someone like us to design your identity system but you cheap out or you cut corners on the production… I think you’re wasting your time and your money. And I don’t want to do that to you,” Do concludes. It's a powerful demonstration of how to stop selling and start serving.

    The client, though shocked, is not offended. He’s been consulted, not sold to. He’s been given a moment of clarity. “I may have to let this marinate,” he says. “I’m completely misaligned with what I think it’s going to cost.”

    The call may not have ended in a sale, but it ended in trust. The client is now educated, sober, and sees Do as a genuine advocate for his success.

    The Anatomy of an "Unsell"

    What Do practices is not an “unsell” in the sense of trying to lose the business. It is a process of filtration and alignment designed to ensure success for both parties. He is not trying to get the client to say no; he is making it safe for them to say yes, fully informed of the consequences.

    This approach is built on a foundation of several key techniques observed in the roleplay:

    Clarifying the Need: Do never stops asking questions until he is certain he understands the root problem, not just the symptom the client describes.

    Challenging Thinking: He is not afraid to question the client's logic and assumptions, forcing them to defend their own strategy. This is one of the many brutal business truths successful entrepreneurs learn.

    Logic Testing: By comparing the logo budget to the rollout budget, he exposes a critical flaw in the client’s plan. The math has to make sense. A $60,000 logo with a $5,000 execution budget is illogical.

    Advocacy Over Sales: At every turn, his language reinforces that his primary concern is the client’s well-being. He expresses a desire not to waste their money, which fundamentally changes the power dynamic.

    This entire process requires a specific mindset, one defined by business maturity, self-confidence, and a deep-seated stoicism. It is the opposite of the needy, hungry freelancer who enters a call desperate to close the deal. The entire process is a masterclass in professional sales training.

    “I do what's right for the client,” Do states. “You may lose the business today, but you'll win the game tomorrow.”

    The Abundance Mindset in Action

    Why can Do operate with this level of detachment? It comes from a place of abundance and a genuine belief in the value he provides. He doesn't *need* this one client today.

    He shares an anecdote about a man known as Jake the Jeweler, who films himself trying to give away ounces of gold on the street. Most people refuse, suspicious of a catch. When they say no, the man doesn't feel rejected. He feels relieved. Why? Because he knows the value of what he holds. He has no problem with rejection because the value is inherent in the gold, not in the other person's acceptance of it. When you have something of real value, someone saying no is more valuable, because it filters for the right people.

    “I think this is one of those things where no is more valuable to me,” the jeweler says in the video. This is the core of the abundance mindset.

    Do applies this directly to the creative and consulting world. “I don’t think we internally believe that what we’re doing is valuable,” he suggests. This lack of internal belief is what creates neediness. It forces you to change your tone, to compromise on price, to sell solutions you don't believe in, all in the desperate hope of getting the client to sign.

    When you have a lack mindset, you think: “What can I do to get Mo to sign on the dotted line?” This leads to a cascade of bad decisions, like dropping the price from $50k to $25k on the spot, sending strange signals and eroding all trust. True value, like the kind discussed in a value pricing masterclass, isn't arbitrarily discounted.

    The secret is simple, yet profound. When asked how he shows clients he cares, Do replies, “Here’s a dirty secret, because I genuinely care. It's that simple. I don't need to sell you today. In fact, I prefer not to sell you. I got enough on my plate.”

    This is not a tactic. It’s a state of being. It’s the result of confidence, experience, and the security that comes from knowing your worth.

    The goal is not to win every project. The goal is to partner with the right clients on projects that are set up for success from day one. You do that by being a ruthless advocate for their best interests, even when it costs you the deal.

    That is how you turn a sales call into a trust-building exercise. That is how you stop being a vendor and become an indispensable partner.

    so in a situation where your prospect has identified they need a new brand identity and logo design system you've determined this is what they need and you've determined that it solves a business problem what business problem did that solve um the way they show up is not representative of how good of a business they are it feels in congruent with their marketing it's not attractive enough for the kind of client they need so they're not getting the right leads in the door cuz maybe they look cheaper than they actually are and they're introducing a new line of things where this extended brand identity is helping them launch this stuff easier and make sure that everything is cohesive as it goes out it sounds like everything you're saying is what they have currently is misaligned with what they like from status to attraction to leads to product launch awareness Association they want to change it are any of these things quantifiable from a business metric I get the dance we're doing now I'm the client I feel like I'm feeding right into your hand is this is this happening right now is this meta right right now is this what's going on yeah if we're not attracting the right person then person that we want which on average pays us this much is not coming through the door so we're not hitting the revenue markers that we want to hit do you think your money is better spent investing in copyrighting and marketing funnels and marketing programs than it is in brand Identity Design if your whole point is to attract more customers do you think by changing the identity that that's going to do anything I think the copyrighting and the marketing and how it's presented needs to be aligned with the brand identity that's important to me or else we're just going to look like the quick marketers they a clickfunnels landing page with a lot of text and it doesn't really speak to our culture who we are and who we serve so I I do think important I do want to say this I would love nothing more than to design a brand identity system for you however I just need to check in with with you to say like in the real world do you buy products that you love from companies that are very valuable where they're logo and identity system is trash that's an excellent question I would say yeah sometimes can you name more companies where that's true versus false or can you name more that it's where that's false versus true where they're valuable company and they're Identity Design is terrible more cases where it's true or more cases where that's false probably more cases where it's false as I think of my own shopping Behavior and the longevity of who I buy from I'm an iPhone user The Experience from top to bottom from when I get on the website or when I go to their desk in the shop to the packaging I think it is important how many companies that can you name that are on the Apple level experience that you're talking about would should you go down the list with me not many probably probably not so I already know the answer to this question is because a lot of people associate a solution with what they want and they don't actually take the time to actually check in whether or not the market validates this or not I'll give you a couple examples the Hilton Hotel you love their logo and identity system I could care less about it actually right valuable company very much so marott yeah Norwegian Cruises we can just go down the line and in fact there are many companies which their logo identity is terrible but it doesn't seem to matter so I would hate for you to spend money building something in hopes of achieving a certain result when that's not likely going to happen I care a lot about Identity Design packaging customer experience but then we have to say that that's what matters to us and not because we're trying to attract new customers because there's probably safer bets that'll get you a more likely outcome than it is to spend more money in doing brand Identity Design but there are two other things that you mentioned which is status there's a feeling here and you don't want to feel like a subpar brand you want to feel like a premium brand and the next is you're you're making new products and you need to launch things and maybe the old Identity Design is attached to certain feelings and associations that are no longer relevant to this company you've outgrown the old container and to get a fresh start you need to change identity if that's the case then a logo might serve that purpose really well it's giving yourself a makeover so you can start fresh often times when a company is inherited by the Children of the founder they want to put their stamp they want to change things they're going new bold Direction they want to make it more modern and Innovative they want to switch verticals that's a good time to change the name and the logo is that the case here the more you explain it that is definitely the feeling that I have and the desire that I want and where we're at as a business so one is a feeling based and it's hard to quantify that but let's just put that aside for a second and the other one is because we need to reposition that's a marketing function and for sure you need a new identity to reflect that nothing gets depressed talking more than when you start to make some changes like the identity all of a sudden people notice right away because you've you've you've given it a facelift that's why people remodel restaurants and create new identity systems is this an important thing for you do you feel like without this it's going to hold your company back I think it's necessary right now and I wouldn't want to put so much work around the launching of a product the bringing people in if the experience does not feel right for the client it doesent us and the more you ask these questions itely is just feeling like I want to be proud with how we're up in the marketplace and I want to use your language to make the experience premium and I think the identity and the logo is a big part of that I need you to know that premium logos and experiences don't come cheap that's why they're premium tell me more are you aware of that I am well not just the design the research the craftsmanship but also in the production of things the reason why Apple product feel that the way they feels because every component from the plastic wrapper to the packaging and the friction in the Box the paper the photography it's all money and these are all little tiny signals that are sent from product to customer that they might not be able to articulate but they feel so often times prospects will come to us and say we want to create a premium experience but they're not they're not really willing to back it up and so there's a misalignment there again you've seen this too overseas companies who do knock off products or me too products will cut corners and you can feel the difference you can see the difference and you can taste the difference if it's a food product so you have to be 100% committed to this otherwise it's going to be lipstick on a pig as they say are you committed to it I'm committed to it I would like to know more of what that commitment looks like because from what I'm hearing from you this is not just a one andone play this is something that will probably linger throughout many different Arenas of our entire business you mentioned photography you mentioned product you mentioned packaging so I would like to know what that commitment looks like and then it sounds like we need to have a deeper conversation on if this is the commitment what is the investment relative to that commitment but I am right now committed to this well you've mentioned the word experience several times and then we have to sit down and map out with you what all is is included in the experience of something and I don't know enough about your company to make any presumption but let's just leave it where we started which is you want someone to help you fashion a brand identity system that is reflective of the values that you want and you're willing to make at least conceptually a financial commitment a product design commitment an experience design commitment to see this all the way through because we're only as strong as our weakest chain that's where we'll break so having said that in what ballpark of money have you prepared in your mind to spend towards this endeavor you know with it being something that I didn't think it would come cheap relative to what I want to accomplish definitely mid five figures or something like this but again I don't know what I don't know so I am seeking you to kind of guide me in this Arena if I'm being transparent so you're prepared to spend somewhere in the $50 to $60,000 range is that right once that's accomplished what is the rest of the commitment that you have in terms of printing production photography do you have a sense of your overall budget for design be honest with you you've opened up my awareness to what's going to be needed after this initial deliverable that I was expecting from this call so I would probably need a little bit more guidance on that as to whether that's a communication with you to discover what that is or if I need to go back to the team and understand like okay we're going to need more money because of the roll out of this after the identity is so let's talk about this real quickly this is an aside to everyone who's paying attention right now to in order for us to expedite the conversation I'm going to skip over a few things want to make some assumptions that Mo and I have not talked about and I'm going to enter back into the scene as if the conversation already happened okay and if you're interested in hearing more about that let us know in the comments we'll take care of that so on a different episode we will go into detail this thing so that you can see it in this excruciating detail and we can do that now back to the episode all right Mo given our conversation about your needs and the skews that you have and the different customer touch points I'm going to do a ballpark estimation right now on top of the 50 or $60,000 you're going to need to spend on the idty design or what you're prepared to spend we're looking at another at least quarter million to $400,000 so somewhere between $250 to $400,000 is the commitment that you need to make on the other things first of all before we go too deep how does that sit with you way too much you're going to spend $60,000 on a logo and you're not prepared to spend in production for the all the other touch points that we we talked about the website the social media assets the packaging the printing I'm just getting you prepared for how much money you're going to spend if you want to create that experience like I said you've opened up my awareness to that being the need I didn't expect it to be in that high of a six figure Mark and I'm just saying one business owner to another if you're prepared to spend 50 to $60,000 on an identity system this is very much on the low end of the spectrum here so there's probably some potential misalignment this is why we have to have this conversation here because if you actually hire someone like us to design your identity system but you cheap out or you cut corners on the production the printing your signage and all the kinds of things that you need to to make then I think you're wasting your time and your money and I don't want to do that to you how would you like to proceed honestly from what you just said I may have to let this marinate I'm completely misaligned with what I what I think it's going to cost versus what you just laid out let me just quickly explain it to you so you can have the things to ruminate over okay if you were to use a new identity system with your with your existing website it will feel really weird because it'll feel like you took a cool logo and you paste it into your site and nothing will work and depending on the level of design service that you're going to use it could be anywhere between $40 to $80,000 just to do that alone so when I mentioned to you $250 to $400,000 you can start to see given all the different touch points that we talked about I see at least 10 in front of me which the average spend if you were to spend on the highend would be $40,000 per touch point which is relatively low compared to the identity system that you're inquiring about right now and it would be very hard to produce anthemic videos media assets to be used for the next year for anything less than that so there's a disproportionate amount of money that you're spending on the logo which you're not willing to commit through on the other end talk about the printing budget and everything else that we're talking about there's no way you can do this in my experience does that help you get perspective on that that the cost per unit is relatively low compared to what you're prepared to pay for the logo and identity system yeah yeah it does it does I wasn't I think at the at the core of all this I wasn't prepared to spend that much out the gate so it's good to know that that's kind of what's going to be expected and I definitely have to do some realigning with what I'm prepared to do let's take a pause here I want to explain something to our audience any company an entrepreneur who's prepared to spend 50 $60,000 and creating a premium experience in rebranding has already committed way over this amount of money this is where the role plays usually break because if you think about the amount of money they have to have and the investment they're willing to make they're not going to sit there and spend 50 60k on a logo and say let's do everything else for 5K each it just won't make sense at all right so this is why our audience is not able to connect like oh the role play didn't work it's it didn't work because Mo doesn't run a $300 million company and he would know that when we talk to customers who can pay this kind of money they'd spend $250,000 on one video alone one 30C video they'd spend $100,000 on making an explainer video for a conference they're going to use one time in fact back in the day when we used to work with gaming companies for their demos for E3 which is the big gaming conference they spend north of half a million dollars to do a product launch video that is like 30 seconds or a minute long that's the level which we're talking about right now so everything is relative right had you said um we have $10,000 for logo then I would have pulled the other numbers down because I'm just using relative scale here that's why this once in hour it's like it doesn't make sense to me well no one would spend 60k and then cut every other Corner that I know there was a little bit of intention from me on that and I know this but I want you to elaborate what you're doing I heard a few things that you did but I want you to break down that scenario I'm going to consider that that role play ended with me backing out maybe calling you again because you consulted me to really think about what I'm spending my money on right and wasn't fully in alignment with my thinking well maybe I shouldn't spend that much on a logo CU I don't have that much for everything on the back end but here's some things that I heard from you you did a lot of unsell yourself so making me want to say no to you and not Choose You clarifying my need challenging my thinking and then logic testing and I think a big part of how we got to the conclusion of like dude you're going to spend 60 but you're not going to spend 250 on all the other collateral that you're going to have to make that's a big test of my logic but I want you to kind of cuz you're masterful at this break down what you did because I don't want the end conclusion to be like well Chris has 30 years of experience that's why he did it so well so can you just break down what you did with with me in that role play yeah I'll tell you the simple way to do it and then I'll expand on it if you wish I do wish what I'm trying to do is what therapists do the therapist is almost solely reliant on the person in front of them to tell them the truth and the truth is is a funny word to use because true to them true to life true to reality it can all be true and also be all untrue so whenever they hear something and their Spider Sense goes off they have have to say where have you seen this to be true what evidence do you have that supports your observation that's all we're trying to do so when the client says yeah all valuable companies have a really amazing Identity Design system I say well really actually I think my instincts tell me the opposite but I don't say that up front I just say what evidence do you have to be true and I don't want to use those words because it seems very challenging for me to ask it that way so then I say well based on your experiences with brands that are valuable how many can you think of that have a great Identity Design system versus how many that don't I already know this because the world is ugly it's run by people who have no taste who hire people have no taste to make things that are taste less it's very rare that's why when the client or the prospect pointed out apple apple is the easy reference as to the gold standard if you look at the gold standard it falls off really quickly there are tons of companies out there that have great products that have great customer relationships that are worth billions of dollars who have a really poor identity design system true so I already know that I kind of have a lot more evidence at least I've been able to observe that supports the opposit when I hear something that's untrue or illogical or irrational I I just have to ask is this because you are someone that does their due diligence assessing these things so you can be like okay that sounds illogical or am I jaded to assume that I don't feel like everybody can come to that conclusion so quickly where you're testing that person's logic I give you the life back assume everything that said and presented to you is untrue okay and I'll tell you why not to be a jerk but that's what it means to be a critical thinker to be critical of your thoughts what I assume because when I I've worked with enough clients now my assumption is clients are busy they don't spend their time thinking about the things that I care a lot about and so they haven't formulated all their thoughts and theories on what they need to do on a visual or design basis they ask for solutions they don't even know are connected to Real Results and they don't use precise enough language and so that's a lot of reasons why I suspect nothing that they say is true not that they're ill intention not that they're trying to lie to me but they just haven't had time to think about it my job my role is to help them think about it as an advocate for their business and their goals not as an advocate for kristo and I think what you're seeing here is a level of business maturity yes a level of self-confidence and self-awareness amount of stoicism and living by the value of do what's right for the client and you may lose the business today but you'll win the game tomorrow so let's break this thing down let's take it to somewhere real personal between you and me we got off a two-hour call with the entire content team and each and every single person presupposes they have the right solution and the whole time in which I'm talking I think they're just mostly just waiting so they can present their idea versus like what is Chris really saying what is it that he wants and how do we check in with him to make sure this is true and he's thought this through now I'm unlike most people in that I actually do think through what I'm about to say and I try my best to use precise language but this is not an indictment on you and anybody else that was on that call but everybody I think is just really waiting to say something not really listening at all and using their own unverified observations and opinions to counter my own opinions you're going to lose that war every single time but what you're also going to do is you're going to increase the friction that you have with your clients so that's just a business lesson everybody I don't go in there saying uh you should do it this way because I believe this to be true and you don't know what you're talking about and you know well my observation says the opposite and that's unfortunately just a sign of business immaturity now it's going to sound like wait a minute didn't you say you go and assume that people don't know what they're talking about they're lying to me and it's untr yes I do but I'm interested from their point of view what their observations are and I would like for them to share that data with me versus me coming in saying well I went through the site and I've been watching watching these shows on the internet and this is what's that's me entering new evidence into the case I don't want to do that so if they say something that's true then I'm more convicted and confident that this is the right solution this is an extremely high level intellectual conversation that I think is about to like over people's heads I mean I I've had I've done this multiple times now and it's still it it every time it blows my mind because it just makes me realize how jaded we go into these conversations How We Do lead with a tremendous amount of assumptions How We Do lead with tremendous amount of hunger and ego and wanting to earn the business quickly from a place of selfishness and the whole time and I think this is why people love role plays between you and I not to digress and we always see the comments like Mo if I was in your seat it would be so much easier I would I would haggle him and all this kind of and I'm sitting here like he never once made me feel like I need to haggle him if anything he made me gen genuinely reflect internally and be like damn I may not be thinking about this the right way my logic may not be clear so for me to quote unquote submit as some of the trolls say it's like no you were too easy on him it's like no it's just so calm and so mirror esque that it's like oh that sounds very reasonable well I think you've already highlighted most of the problems one is maturity maturity comes in self-confidence ego assumptions arrogance I would use the word arrogant because I think what people assume to be arrogant is not what they do it's like no that's what other people do but if I come in ready to prescribe solutions to you presuming I know a lot about your business and what your wants and needs are and that everything I say is true that's that's a pretty arrogant position and I ask certain questions thinking I think I know the answer but I leave room for them to say something different right and if they say something different I'm like oh okay you're right and if you frame it as an open-ended question they won't feel like you're leading them so you have no pie on face and if say isn't it true you were there on the night of the fifth with the the murder weapon and then they're like no I wasn't I was with my mom like well you know Poo's on my face isn't it so but if I'm like so where were you on the night of the 5th did can anybody corroborate your whereabouts how do you know how do you remember that time so well that seems pretty reasonable I'll move on to the next question if you go in there feeling needy like you have a lack mindset it's going to skew your question it's going to change your tone of voice and you're going to sit there and think what can I do to get Mo to sign on the dot yes so true and oh I Don't Care What mo asked for I want to sell sell sell well it seems like Mo wasn't comfortable with 50 I'll drop it to 25 right now this creates all kinds of strange signals to your prospect it's like wait a minute is this all a game for you this is my business you just change prices and scope on the Fly and one thing that we didn't talk about MO is what I'm doing I'm not really trying to unsell tell you I'm just trying to be your Advocate that's how I felt though and if we were strangers and I could get you to tell me on camera afterwards I suspect and you can tell me otherwise there's a little feeling of warmth like God because we just want to make sure that people care about us before we do business with them and moad asked me this question a long time ago bringing it up from the archives here and he's asked me before Chris how do you show people you care how do you do that and I turned to Mo I said Mo here's a dirty secret cuz I genuinely care it's that simple I don't need to sell you today in fact I prefer not to sell you I got enough on my plate now here's something really interesting I saw this video and hopefully you can find it for the cut later there's a guy I don't know who he is I I feel like he's Jake the Jeweler Jeweler and he's giving away an ounce of gold I've seen this video yes okay it's like these little tags that he gives out to people and people are super suspicious of other people he's like let me see how much gold I can give away today so he's like hey you want gold do you want gold no no no because they think there's always strings attached and when people like no I don't want it he goes that's totally fine and he says to camera something like I think this is one of those things where no is more valuable to me when they say no so I have no problem with rejection when you have something truly of value like you're literally handing out gold on the street and people don't want it you don't feel rejected you feel relieved but I don't think we internally believe that what we're doing is valuable [Music]
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