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    Why No One Watches YOUR Content (Live Coaching)

    Chris Do coaches an expert on why her detailed, technical content fails and how to create engaging, 'snackable' videos that connect.

    Chris Do

    Chris Do

    Founder, The Futur™ · November 15, 2025

    Your Expertise is Killing Your Content

    You are an expert. You have spent decades mastering your craft. You possess a depth of knowledge that few can rival. So you decide to share it. You create content to attract clients, build a brand, and establish authority. But no one is watching.

    The views are low. The likes are sparse. The comments are nonexistent. The silence is deafening. You pour more information into your videos, more data into your posts, more nuance into your explanations, convinced that more value is the answer. It is not.

    The problem is not a lack of expertise. The problem is the expertise itself. In the world of content, your greatest professional strength can become your biggest communication liability. This is the expert’s dilemma, and it is the hidden reason your content is failing to connect.

    This exact scenario unfolds in a live coaching session with Chris Do, where he diagnoses the content of Stacey, a 25-year engineering veteran turned business strategist for construction companies. She is brilliant, experienced, and deeply committed to her audience of C-suite executives. Her content, however, is a perfect case study in how expertise can sabotage reach.

    Stacey’s goal is clear: use LinkedIn to connect with owners of construction companies and start conversations that lead to business. She has the credentials, including a Certified Energy Manager designation, and deep industry experience. She even has data from LinkedIn Premium showing that company owners are viewing her profile. But they are not engaging. They are lurking, not connecting.

    The gap between visibility and engagement holds the key. For Stacey, and for countless experts like her, the solution is not more information. It is a fundamental shift in communication philosophy.

    The Diagnosis: Steak Dinner for a Snack-Sized Audience

    Do pulls up one of Stacey’s videos. The opening line is, “Beware of growth traps.” It’s an abstract concept, an intellectual warning. The video then dives into a ten-point list of foundational systems businesses need before they can scale.

    It is detailed, logical, and filled with valuable information. It is also, as Do points out, precisely the wrong approach for the platform.

    “We often think we need to serve them the full meal when no one’s looking for the full meal,” Do explains. “They’re looking for a light snack right now. They're looking for nachos and chips… they're not looking for like a steak dinner.”

    This is the core of the issue. A four-minute video detailing ten complex business systems is a steak dinner with a side of asparagus and charred Brussels sprouts. The LinkedIn feed, however, is a tapas bar. Users are scrolling for a quick bite of insight, a moment of intrigue, or a flash of entertainment. They did not log on to have their brain fried by a technical lecture.

    The problem is a mismatch of intent and format. Stacey’s intent is to educate deeply. The platform’s format rewards immediate captivation.

    Do deconstructs the flaw in her approach:

    • The Abstract Hook: “Beware of growth traps” is too conceptual. It doesn’t create immediate, personal tension for a busy CEO scrolling their feed. It asks the viewer to do intellectual work to understand its relevance.
    • The Information Overload: A ten-point list is overwhelming. Do notes, “I tried to pack more information into a video and wonder why people weren't watching it.” The impulse to be comprehensive is a symptom of the expert’s curse.
    • The Lack of Curiosity Gap: By delivering everything at once, the video leaves no reason for the viewer to take the next step. There is no intrigue, no question left unanswered.

    The content is technically correct but emotionally barren. “The engineering brain is speaking, not the entertainer educator speaking right now,” Do tells Stacey. “It's a little too technical. It's a little bit dry.”

    This isn't about dumbing down content. It's about sequencing it. The goal is not to prove how much you know in a single post. The goal is to earn the viewer's attention for the next 15 seconds, then the next 30, and ultimately to make them so intrigued they look at your profile or send you a message. It is a lesson not just in content, but in the psychology of modern communication, a topic often explored in discussions of how to build content people actually react to.

    The fix begins with re-engineering the offer. Stop serving the meal. Start offering a single, irresistible bite.

    The Energy Deficit: Why Your 'Who' Matters More Than Your 'What'

    As the coaching session progresses, a remarkable transformation occurs in Stacey. When discussing the technical aspects of her content, she is serious and measured. But when Do’s feedback clicks, she laughs, smiles, and her entire demeanor changes. Her energy becomes light, engaging, and magnetic.

    “You know what? I like that you're smiling right now,” Do observes. “Your energy is so different right now. I want to see that energy in the videos.”

    This is the second critical diagnosis. The content is not just failing because of what is being said, but because of who is saying it. Or rather, the persona she adopts to say it.

    Do asks a simple question: “When you record content, what is your emotional state?” He intuits the answer. She produces content by herself, staring into the cold, unresponsive eye of a camera lens.

    “It sucks to record content,” Do admits. “It sucks to stare into a piece of glass… It's a freaking lonely endeavor.”

    This is a universal struggle for creators. A therapist friend once explained to Do that public speaking is terrifying because the audience is taught to be quiet, depriving the speaker of the feedback loop that regulates their emotional state. Without smiles, nods, or verbal affirmation, the speaker feels dysregulated.

    Recording solo content is an extreme version of this. There is no audience. There is no feedback. The result is often a flat, low-energy delivery that fails to build a human connection. Stacey’s on-camera persona is the serious engineer, while the person talking to Do is the warm, insightful strategist a client would love to work with. The clients get the best version; the content gets the rest.

    The solution is not to fake enthusiasm. It is to change the conditions of creation. “If you're having fun, I'm having fun,” Do states. Energy is transferable through the lens.

    Do suggests several tactical shifts to solve this energy deficit:

    • Find a Content Partner: Record with another person. The simple act of having someone to talk to can transform your delivery, providing the natural energy and feedback you lack when alone. Use it as “content training wheels.”
    • Change Your Mindset: Instead of thinking of it as a performance, pretend you are talking to a friend. Start with, “Hey friend, come here. I'm going to tell you something.” This mental shift can immediately make your tone more conversational and relatable.
    • Recognize the “Who”: Prospective clients are not just evaluating your information; they are imagining what it is like to work with you for months or years. “Is she going to bore me?” Do asks rhetorically. “Or is she going to give me that high-level stuff so I can get my business done?” Your content persona is your audition.

    The person you are when you are helping someone, when you are lit up by their success, that is the person who needs to show up on camera. This is the core of building a powerful personal brand, something that goes beyond just the business itself, a distinction Do often makes when discussing the difference between a personal brand vs. business brand. It is about embodying the experience of working with you. For Stacey, it means letting her hair down, both literally and figuratively, and letting her genuine warmth and passion shine through.

    The Content Prescription: From Engineer to Entertainer

    With the dual problems of density and energy identified, Do lays out a new playbook. This is not about abandoning expertise. It is about packaging it for attraction, not just for accuracy. The goal shifts from proving intelligence to sparking curiosity.

    The new strategy is built on a few core principles. This is where the engineering mindset, with its love for systems and process, can be redirected toward a more effective form of communication.

    First, master the hook. The first three seconds determine whether a video is watched or scrolled past. The abstract hook must be replaced with something concrete, personal, and provocative.

    Do workshops alternatives to Stacey’s “Beware of growth traps”:

    • “Do these five things before you think about scaling your business.” (Direct and creates a knowledge gap).
    • “From seven to eight figures, if you commit these five things, you could be sabotaging your business.” (Creates tension and raises the stakes).

    The difference is stark. The new hooks are not academic. They are headlines. They create a problem the viewer suddenly wants to solve. This is the first step in learning 2025 LinkedIn strategies that actually work: stop talking like a textbook and start talking like a problem-solver.

    Second, shrink the serving size. The ten-point list is dead. Instead, Do proposes a radical downsizing of the content package.

    “What I would have done was to break this piece of content down to two parts,” he advises. “Part one, tell me the five things. And then at the end of the video, 'There are five more things I want to share with you. Why don't you comment this word and I'll send you the PDF of the next five.'”

    This approach achieves several goals simultaneously:

    • It respects the audience’s time and attention span. A shorter video has a higher completion rate.
    • It creates a curiosity gap. The viewer is left wanting more, which is the entire point of top-of-funnel content.
    • It generates engagement. Asking for a comment boosts the post’s performance in the algorithm and starts a conversation.
    • It provides a measurable signal of interest. People who comment are signaling they are part of the target audience.

    Do compares this to eating a snack. “After the first bite, I'm like, 'God, I'm so hungry right now.' I'll just take five more bites.” That is the goal. Make the content so good, so intriguing, that the first bite makes them hungry for the whole meal. This strategy is essential for anyone trying to attract new customers and grow their business through content.

    Finally, be ruthlessly succinct. Throughout the coaching, Do repeatedly points out Stacey’s tendency to give long, detailed answers when a short one will do. “You take what is possibly a short answer. You always make a short answer much longer than it needs to be,” he notes gently.

    He calls it the “engineer stamp.” When precision and thoroughness are the hallmarks of your profession, it is a hard habit to break. But social media is a conversational medium. In conversation, brevity is valued. The directive is simple: “High level, tickle the brain, entice them to want more, and just walk away. Leave them wanting more.”

    Unlocking Your Best Stories, Ethically

    The most potent content is not a list of tips. It is a story. Stacey reveals a major roadblock to creating her best content: client confidentiality. “I struggle with the confidentiality aspect,” she admits. “Those most magical moments happen sitting right across from the client.”

    She feels her most powerful proof, the stories of transformation, are locked away. This is a common and legitimate fear for coaches, consultants, and strategists working under NDAs. Breaching trust is not an option. Do agrees: “Never, ever, ever breach that for the pursuit of a new opportunity.”

    But the choice is not between silence and betrayal. There is a third way: sharing stories with permission and abstraction.

    Do provides a clear, ethical framework for turning private wins into public narratives. Trust is the foundation, and it must be protected.

    Here is the process:

    1. Ask for Permission. This is the non-negotiable first step. Frame it as a way to help others. Do scripts the request: “My business depends on positive word of mouth and testimonials. I was listening back to our conversation the other day and I pulled this out… May I have your permission to use this on social?”
    2. Offer to Abstract. Reassure the client that you will protect their identity. Offer to change details, remove their name, or speak only about their industry in general terms. The goal is to share the lesson, not the source.
    3. Focus on the Transformation. The power of the story is not in the client’s specific revenue number or company name. It is in the human journey from problem to solution, from pain to relief.

    Do then role-plays how Stacey could tell such a story, combining her personal journey with a client's breakthrough. “I just had a meeting with one of my clients yesterday who’s in the steel industry,” he begins, playing the part of Stacey. “And they said to me, ‘Stacey, you did X, Y, and Z for me.’ And I got to tell you, I don't care how many drawings I've ever done in my life… this is 1,000 times more powerful than anything I've ever done. This is why I do what I do.”

    That story is compelling. It is emotional. It connects Stacey’s deep engineering past to her present impact as a strategist. It demonstrates her value without listing features or benefits. And it betrays no one’s trust.

    The audience’s reaction, Do predicts, would be, “Damn, who's this woman?” This is how you build a powerful personal brand. It is not about shouting your accomplishments. It is about sharing stories that reveal your character, your impact, and your purpose. These principles are key for anyone looking to understand what successful personal brands do differently; they lead with narrative, not just data.

    Stacey reveals she already has written case studies but was worried they would fall flat. This is the final piece of the puzzle. The case studies are the raw material. The new, energetic persona and storytelling framework are the tools to bring them to life.

    The Path Forward: Find Your Voice, Then Your Format

    Near the end of the session, Stacey asks a crucial question about transitioning from the short, punchy content Do is prescribing to the longer-form videos she initially wanted to create. It’s a question about scale and ambition.

    Do’s answer is firm and clear: stop. Not forever, but for now. “I want you to really just focus on the short form,” he insists. “Nail it. Get your energy right. Just be the master of creating short hooks and bite-sized snackable content.”

    This is a strategic sequence. Before you can earn a 10-minute view, you must first master earning a 10-second view. Long-form content is not just short-form content made longer; it requires a different set of skills to maintain engagement over time. Trying to master both at once is a recipe for frustration.

    The priority is to find what works. “When one of those videos pops, you and I will dissect that. We'll figure out how to expand it,” he promises. First, prove the concept with a small, testable piece of content. Then, once you have validated the hook, the angle, and the energy, you can build it out into a worksheet, a mini-course, or a longer video.

    This creates a powerful motivational loop. Content creation can be a thankless grind when it generates no results. “If no one's looking at your content, you don't get any DMs, no leads, no nothing. Yeah. Content freaking sucks,” Do says bluntly.

    But when it starts working, the entire dynamic shifts. “When the content starts working for you, you will be so happy to work on the content,” he says. The positive feedback, the DMs, the new leads, they are the fuel that makes the hard work of creation feel purposeful and rewarding.

    For Stacey, this means her new timeline is branching. The “old Stacey” was the dense, serious engineer. The “new Stacey” will be lighter, more joyful, and more focused on connection than on comprehensive explanation. The goal for now is not perfection. The goal is progress. It is about finding her voice, her natural energy on camera, and building a system for producing content that gets results.

    The journey from expert to effective communicator is a process of unlearning. It requires letting go of the need to prove you are smart and embracing the mission to be understood.

    Your audience does not need another textbook. They need a guide.

    I'm going to ask you some questions and then I would love for you to just answer them because before we get into the work I want to know the person. Okay. Okay. I've seen your content. I've seen it on LinkedIn and then I clicked on this. So I'm like, "Oh, I've seen Stacey's work before." So I'm familiar with it and I've seen some of it so I I kind of have an opinion about it. So now what is your profession? What is it that you do? >> So my background is in engineering. I'm a strategist. >> Okay. >> And I support the business. >> What kind of strategist are you? business strategist. >> You're a business strategist. Okay. And your background is in Did you say engineering? >> Yeah, engineering and construction. >> Oh, like um structural engineering. >> Yep. In structural, electrical, mechanical. My background was in the merchant marine as an engineer aboard ship. >> Okay. >> And then on land and construction. >> Okay. So that means you're good with the maths >> and physics things like that, right? >> Well, common to you, uncommon to other people. And I I I know of the profession. Basically, uh people like Stacy make sure when architects come up with some cool stuff, the whole house or building doesn't fall down because they didn't factor in the wind conditions or something like that or the actual physical weight of the building collapsing on top of itself. So, um people like Stacey make it safe for us to drive on bridges to live in our homes and not fear those kinds of things. Okay. But then you go into like business strategy. Kind of a leap there. A little bit different part of your brain. Yes. >> It was an intuitive uh transition to me because of working in the field for over 27 years. And that's the field of the people that I support. So I've worked on the side of the largest construction companies and then been on the opposite side. >> Oh, I see. >> As the contractor. >> Gotcha. Okay. >> So now I support them in their growth having come full circle. Oh, okay. So, same vertical, just different sides. >> Yep. >> Okay. So, everybody understands she works in the construction industry, of course, right? So, people need uh structural engineering, stuff like that, electrical engineering. She figures it out. And she goes, "Hey, maybe you need help with the business side because I could do this, but fewer people can do the business strategy." So, how long ago did you make that flip? When did you join the dark side? >> About five years ago. >> Okay. So, and how long before were you working as an engineer? uh about 25 years. >> Okay. So, relatively recent. All right. So, what is your uh goal for creating content >> to connect with the owners of the construction companies that think they have to continue to operate in the industry the way they always have. For instance, many of them rely on bidding and they don't have risk mitigation strategies to keep their cash flow stabilized. So they wind up having to let people go or worse take on predatory uh lending um in between bids because there are delays in payments andor project continuence. So, one of the areas that we specialize in is developing MR for companies that less commonly ever think about that. >> Okay. MMR MR is monthly recurring revenue. >> Yes. >> Okay. You have to keep in mind most of us not in this industry don't know what you do. And uh if you're going to air air on the side of dumbing the words down to than using terms that people don't understand, right? If if people don't understand what you say, then they can't follow you. they won't remember what you say and all those kind of things. So, it's a danger of smart people. Uh people that are highly educated tend to speak above people's heads, not at where they need to be. Okay. So, your goal is to connect with owners >> and yes, >> all the reasons are less important to me right now for the kind of conversation we're going to have. How will we measure your ability to connect with owners based on your content? >> The owners getting in the conversation even though >> a DM Uh the yeah I think my my ideal client prospect is more likely to message me than to get into the conversation. Although some do start in the conversation I would say fewer more a little bit more discreet uh because of their their profession and their visibility. >> Okay. And you're doing this mostly on LinkedIn right? >> So LinkedIn is where I spend the most of my time. Um, but I would really love to grow my YouTube channel uh to have this more engagement. >> Well, we're here to help you on one platform, one piece of content. So, you're gonna have to peg. I think you're already I have it for >> Okay, >> that's how I know. Okay. >> I'm not clarifying to everybody. It's literally looking at me right now. So, LinkedIn and the goal is to get someone to either look at your profile or to send you a DM. Is that fair? >> Yes. >> Okay. So content needs to lead to uh profile, which is great. I know something about that, or to get them to DM you. Now, is it safe to assume owners aren't spending a lot of time on LinkedIn or are they? Is it somebody that reports to them that spends a lot of time on LinkedIn? >> So, I think they are, but most of them are on the lurking side versus the actual engaging side. >> Do you have any evidence of this? the difference between the amount of impressions and the amount of engagement. >> Yeah. Okay. Let's do this. Do you have LinkedIn Premium? >> I do. >> So, you can see who's looking at your profile? >> Yes. >> Are most of them owners? >> Yeah. So, the top category is >> owners >> is all senior owners. >> Suite. >> Mhm. >> Okay. Great. I just wanted to verify that before we move on. Okay. Uh side note to my friends who are watching this on the creative side. Whenever the prospect says something, I never assume them to tell the truth. Not that they are actively trying to lie to me, but people have impressions of things. So, whenever possible, we ask for evidence to back it up, right? So, that's what I'm doing here. Because if we work with a false premise, being LinkedIn owners, then we're going to make a flawed assumption. A lot of times, especially with really, really, really big companies, which I'm assuming that's who you work with, they have a gazillion people underneath them that vet and find things like you need to talk to Stacy. She's amazing. Check out her post on this or they forward it to it. So, maybe we have two goals. Goal number one is for the owners to check out your profile or DM you. Goal number two is to have the people that report directly to the owners to forward your content to them. Is that okay? >> Yeah, absolutely. >> Okay. All right. So, I'm going to put that down there. Number one. Number two is forward. So, I'm going to draw a little airplane here. So, let's do this. Let's go look at the piece of content. Let me go share my screen here. I'm here. This is you. Uh, everybody, if you want to check out Stacy, it's with a IE. What is CM? >> Um, certified energy manager. >> Oh, that's an abbreviation I've never heard before. Okay. So, there's a caption, which is all that, and then there's a video down here. So, what we'll do is we'll turn on the volume and we'll watch this together. Okay, >> growth and scale. >> Let's back this up. >> Beware of growth traps. A lot of people want to go right to growth and scale. And what's really hard to hear sometimes as a CEO is you're not ready to grow and scale. You really need a foundation. But if you're willing to hear it and you work on your foundation first, then you are that much closer to the growth and the scale. Can't grow something that doesn't have a foundation. And you can't scale something that hasn't yet grown. So often when we hear people are bringing somebody in to support their growth or their strategy, we're first looking at do they have the foundational systems in place yet that somebody can actually take and run with. Far too often people are skipping a step and asking the wrong question. The question for them is not about scale or growth. It's do I have the systems in place that can be grown and then scaled. And that's the foundation. 10 items here that I'm going to list off for you. So if you write these 10 down, score yourself one point for every system you have in some shape repeatable. Now, if you score less than a five, get yourself to a five before you bring somebody in for growth or scale. The systems are time. So that's where we block and delegate our time as the CEO. Outreach. Outreach is about developing a flywheel that somebody else can come in and help you keep spinning. Payments, how they go in, how they come out. Four, fulfillment. How you perform your work in a repeatable manner? And what sort of digital assets are associated with keeping that a uniform client experience? Purchasing terms, supply chain. Are we optimizing each of those things and growing the relationships that are associated with them so that it matches the value that you bring as a client? >> Okay, I'm going to pause here. That's a really long video now. Okay, we're what 2 minutes and 27 seconds in or is there two and 27 minutes left? This is a Is it a three minute video? >> It's Yeah, I think it's a just about four >> four minutes. >> Might be three and change. >> All right, I'm gonna I'm gonna just live with this for a little bit here. So, let me make this a little bit. Did Can you guys Did it go big screen, everybody? >> I did. >> Okay, cool. Now, we see you much bigger. So, I believe you're in the same environment that you're in now, right? >> I am. >> Yeah. Okay, let's let's just do a little scene by scene breakdown here. We know that reals and shorts, the first three seconds really really matter. So, we should spend um what Eric means calls like the F-15, like the first 15 minutes of a talk. the first 15 seconds in the case the first three 90% of the energy has to be here otherwise we're not going to get a me to watch this video. Okay. So there's a couple different things in order for us to achieve the goal of the CEO looking at this and responding to you. They have to see this video. They have to watch it. And that's also true about the their direct reports. They also have to see they have to watch this thing. Now I think you open up with something beware of growth traps. Okay. And then your second line is something about before you grow or scale or something or people write what was the second line? Do you remember it? >> Beware of growth traps. A lot of people want to go right to growth and scale. And what's really >> okay so those are my first three seconds. A lot of people want to go to growth and scale. So generally speaking, I think if you work on your hook and your intro a little bit more, your probability of higher views and engagement is going to go up. Okay. Um, and you talk about these are the 10 things something. What are the 10 things? Can you tell me >> do you want me to list them out? >> No, just tell me like what's the category? 10 things. What? >> Here are 10 things that if you don't have at least five of these in some shape repeatable, don't go hire somebody to help you grow and scale or don't go hire somebody to help scale. You don't have the foundation yet. >> Okay. So, if you and I were in a copywriting class for marketing, we would sit here and write 100 hooks. I'm gonna do something with you right now and let's see how they work. Okay? Because I think um I get a sense here that um the engineering brain is speaking, not the entertainer educator speaking right now. So, it's a little too technical. It's a little bit dry. Um and at some point, I'm like fading from this, okay? because it's almost like you're explaining too much to me. So I would say something like do these five things before you think about scaling your business. Now I'm like what five things? So beware of growth traps pretty abstract as an idea. Like what growth traps? Like what do you mean? Okay. Or or from scaling from seven to eight figures. Uh if you commit these five things, you could be sabotaging your business. All of a sudden, you have my attention now. And I think if possible, whenever possible, I used to make this mistake. I tried to pack more information into a video and wonder why people weren't watching it because I wasn't scrolling on the feed today to have my brain fried. I just wanted to be entertained a little bit. I want to be intrigued and then get me excited about you so that I want to know the rest. So, what I would have done was to break this piece of content down to two parts. Part one, tell me the five things, right? And then at the end of the video, he said, "There are five more things I want to share with you. Why don't you comment this word and I'll send you the PDF of the next five or I'll send you the video of the next five." This way, you're asking for some engagement and you're just creating a curiosity gap. We we often think we need to serve them the full meal when no one's looking for the full meal. They're looking for a light snack. Right now, they're looking for nachos and chips. I'm sorry, chips and uh salsa or something else. They're not looking for like a steak dinner and I think you're delivering them a steak dinner with a side of asparagus and probably some um charred Brussels sprouts. It's just it's too much for me. Okay. And you know what? I like that you're smiling right now. Your energy is so different right now. I want to see that energy in the videos. Okay. I think Let me Let me ask you something. When you record content, what is your emotional state when you record it? I think that's your energy right now. [laughter] >> Um, you know, it's interesting you say that because what I did to what came out today was much more punchier and high energy. And when I watch things back, often I notice a difference between being live in a session with me and speaking directly to a CEO versus what's captured on video a lot of times lacks that same kind of energy. >> Yeah. You produce content by yourself. >> So I have two ways of doing it. That one that you had up I produced by myself. >> I also work with uh so they we meet for an hour and then they just cut it up. And the reason for that was just to make me not the friction point anymore. >> Yeah. >> And remove the bottleneck. So I I augment with my own. But I know I always have at least 10 to 13 pieces that I can pump out so I can stay consistent. >> Stacey, you know why I'm laughing? Cuz you take what is possibly a short answer. You always make a short answer much longer than it needs to be. Do you know you're guilty of this? >> I do. >> Do you have kids? I don't. Oh, >> okay. Does Does anybody tell you like, you know, I just wanted to know if you're thirsty? You're like, well, today I, you know, just tell me yes or no and I'll get you a cold drink, you know. So, >> I'm going to put the engineer stamp all over that. >> You got to put that away for what we're doing here. Okay. Because I watch your content. I don't know how it is that I came across your content before before you submitting this. I've seen your content before on my link. >> I'm in progroup, too. >> Oh, that's why. Well, sorry. That's why I know you. Okay. So, here's what I want you to do. I need you to just relax. I need you to smile. I want you to have fun. Okay? And that energy is going to transmit through the lens. If you're having fun, I'm having fun. And I got to tell you, the reason why I asked you, are you making the content mostly yourself? And I think the answer is yes, mostly by myself. Is it sucks to record content? It sucks to stare into a piece of glass and say whatever, right? It does. I'm just telling you right now, it's like I can have 35 videos I need to make. I don't wait 23 hours before the 24th hour and I'll start making that content cuz I hate doing it. But when Drigo comes by or Rich or Mo's like, "Hey, Chris, we're going to record content." I'm like, "Okay guys, I I'll see you. Let's go make some content." It's a freaking lonely endeavor. Is that how you feel? Are you like me in that way? >> I see the I see how different the energy is because I'm comparing two things in my head right now. One that was with someone sitting across >> and one on my own. So >> yeah, >> it definitely um I feed off of um >> trying to support somebody else on the other side of the camera. So if it's just me supporting me, it's >> not the same [clears throat] >> right now. That's who should show up. You know, the person who smiles and me and the the the way that you annunciate the the cadence, the flow and speaking with your hands and all that stuff. I like that person. I'm not saying I dislike the other person. And now you have your hair down. You had your hair up. It's just all these little things are cues for us like who's showing up right now. Okay, so I I I remember Wesleyan Little, my friend who's a therapist who said something about like why public speaking is so scary is because we're taught as audience to be quiet and then when the speaker comes on stage they're like feeling really disregulated because they're not getting an emotional response, right? But if I'm here and you're talking to me, I'm like, "Oh my god, that slaps. That was amazing. You you nailed that one. Oh my god, way to kill it. Then your your energy will perk up a little bit. So you got to find somebody to make content with for a little bit. Like we'll use it as content training wheels or to pretend like you just had a conversation with somebody like, "Hey friend, come here. I'm going to tell you something." You know, these are the five things you keep doing wrong and I'm here to help. My name is Stacy. This is what I do. Let's get into the content and just explain those things and just be snappier. Okay. So, for you, it's an engineering problem. It's just too much details, right? Uh I had a a conversation yesterday with my my buddy Hector and Carlos. Uh Hector is a CPA. He wanted to tell me everything we're going to do before we did it. He's like, "Chris, you're not listening to me anymore, are you?" I'm like, "Do I need to know this, friend? I I respect you. I love you guys. You know, I support you, but I don't need to know every step before we do. Just tell me what I need to do so I can get out of here." Same thing. high level, tickle the brain, entice them to want more, and just walk away. Okay, that's it. Leave them wanting more. Make them uh you I don't know about you, but sometimes I'm I'm trying to watch my figure here, and I'm like, I'm not hungry. I don't need to eat dinner. And then I'm like, I'm just going to have a little bite. But the after the first bite, I'm like, God, I'm so hungry right now. I'll just take five more bites. And then before you know, the whole bag of whatever it is I was eating is gone. That's what you want it to be. Bite-size snackable content. They're like, "I can't I can't have enough. What's more? Give me more. More. I want you to do that." >> Okay. So, the content that I had been making was 30 to 90 seconds. This one I was I'm trying to transition to have some longer form content. >> Yeah. But there's an art to it obviously and my uh the engineering side of me definitely did not keep that um punchy enough. So what would you say to transition from the shorter stuff into the longer stuff? >> Okay, we we we have to sit here and unpack this. Okay, I just noticed again your energy has changed twice when you're self-aware and you don't take yourself so seriously. your big smiles were very positive, Angie, as soon as you got to the serious question, you became super serious again. [laughter] Okay, just keep that in mind, okay? Uh because you know what I learned in in client work is that when prospects are talking to you, they're trying to imagine in their mind, what's it like to work with this person the next three, four, five, six months. >> Absolutely >> right. And think about this. Is she going to bore me? Is she going to talk my ear off or is she going to give me that highlevel stuff so I can get my business done? See? >> Yeah. Great point. Think about that. You want to be snappy. You want to be like, "Boom. We're going to have fun, man. Your time is important. Let's get through this. I'll give you as much as detail as you want." Because some people do want that, but until you ask for it, until you beg me for it, I'm not going to give it to you. Okay? All right. The transition. What I would like for you to do is just I want you to really just focus on the short form. Nail it. Get your energy right. Just be the master of creating short hooks and bite-sized snackable content. And when one of those videos pops, you and I will dissect that. We'll figure out how to expand it. Okay. Now, how long have you been making content? >> Concerted effort. Really just um under two years. I've had one go to 1.7 million, one go to maybe three quarters of a million. >> Well, why aren't we looking at the 7 million banger? >> What are we doing with this one? This one has 42 likes. >> Why won't you show me the 72? You know, >> 1.7 >> 1.7 >> Yeah. 1.7. >> Yeah. >> Look at that. Okay. Okay. It doesn't matter. We're not here near there. Basically, your media training has been about two yearsish. And if you're like most people, we start slow. We have starts and stops and then we start to get into the groove. So, we're probably making more content today than we were at the beginning because in the beginning, it's really, really tough. I just want to let you know it takes a while to find your voice, to find your style, and so you're exactly where you need to be. So, I think you and me as we're talking right now, this may be the beginning of a new branch in your timeline, in your sacred timeline. It's going to branch. Uh, the new Stacy's going to show up a little bit lighter, um, a little bit more like joyful in your energy, a little less dense. Let's see where that goes. Okay? And then we'll go back and we'll figure out that was really good. Let's make worksheets out of this. Let's turn this into a mini course and let's let's stretch it out. Okay? I'm pretty good at stretching things out. I'm not so good at condensing things out. So, let's start at the beginning. Let's just get this part. Get your cadence. Get you love and results. And I'll tell you something right now. Everybody who's listening to this, live or not, I'll tell you something. When the content starts working for you, you will be so happy to work on the content. Okay. My wife says this to me all the time. You just love social media, don't you? I'm like, uh, why do you say that? Because everywhere in your DMs, people are saying, you've changed my life. What a positive force in the I'm like, oh yeah, that's why. because it's working for me. But if no one's looking at your content, you don't get any DMs, no leads, no nothing. Yeah. Content freaking sucks. Yeah. >> You just hit on the nose the difference between me showing up for a client and feeling the changes that have happened in their life and how much more profitable their business is, how much more freedom they have as an owner because you're sitting across from that person. >> Yeah. >> I need to bring that into the content that I'm making. And I'd love to be able to build more out loud, but I struggle with the confidentiality aspect of those most magical moments happen sitting right across from the client. >> Are these things recorded? >> They are recorded, but they're recorded for note-taking purposes. >> They're not something that I would ever um >> Well, I'm going to help you >> publicly share. >> Well, no, you need to publicly share, but with permission. You're going to say, "My business depends on positive word of mouth and testimonials. I was listening back to our conversation the other day and I pulled this out from our conversation. May I have your permission to use this on social and I can abstract any of this? Any of this can be changed or we could not even say your name or just we'll just say what kind of industry you're in." I think most kind-hearted people want to see you succeed especially because you've helped them, especially because they just told you how much of an impact you've made. You do need to share this. I do this kind of stuff all the time. I always share stories that are off the record, but I'll abstract some of it so only the person I talk to knows who it is. I'll say one of my friends said this to me and I'm asking for a friend kind of thing, right? And or hey, look, here's how I do it. I'm Stacy, right? I mean, I'm Chris, but I'm you. I'm like, hey guys, I just wanted to share something with you. Um, for 25 years, I'm a structural engineer, electrical engineer, and 5 years ago, I decided to do business strategy, and people called me crazy for doing this. Why would I want to do this? I'm still in the construction space, but I just had a meeting with one of my clients yesterday who's in the steel and blah da da industry, and they said to me, Stacy, you did X, Y, and Zed for me. And I got to tell you, I don't care how many drawings I've ever done in my life, how many calculations, this is 1,000 times more powerful than anything I've ever done. this is why I do what I do. You could totally tell that story just like that and people are like, damn, who's this woman? Who's this? And have betrayed no one. So if you reveal a piece of information that can be traced back to this human, don't put that piece of information there. Okay? So I know a lot of us work under non-disclosure agreements, client confidentiality. The most important thing, trust has to be very high. Never, ever, ever breach that for the pursuit of a new opportunity. You screw over everybody, including yourself. Do not do that. Ask for permission. Abstract the details and you should be okay. Can you do that, Stacey? >> I have some case studies actually written up. I just was worried on in >> the answer is yes. >> They fall flat. >> The answer is yes. >> Yes, I can do that, Chris. >> Of course, you can do that. And by the way, I have case studies. Yes. So, succinct, that's what you got to work on. Succinct, to the point, and just keep the content good for social. Yeah. When when you're a structural engineer, I need you to be highly detailed. Uh no no corner or no stone unturned, no corners cut. But in conversation, light light is the way to go. Okay. >> Super helpful. >> No, see, it wasn't that bad, was it? Come on. >> No, it wasn't. It's right now. this person right here. See, now you know it's over. Um, the root canal is complete and you're like, "Okay, we're good." Yeah, >> Christo, not as bad as a root canal. >> I don't know. I think we have a t-shirt there. >> A t-shirt. T-shirt. Um, yeah. Yeah. I came for a root canal and I got the t-shirt instead. >> Yeah. >> Awesome. >> Okay. >> Thank you so much, Chris. I appreciate it. >> See you in pro. >> See you in pro. >> Okay. Thanks a lot. If you are a person who creates content, you are a coach, an author, a a thought leader, and you're tired of just making content for content's sake, and you you're invested in this, you want to see it work because you know the value of content. I'm not here to convince you. But if you've enjoyed any part of this, and you think I'm the kind of guy who you would get along with and who could possibly help you, this was a little sample. This is an amuse bouch. This is what we're going to do inside Content Lab, a new program that we're launching. It'll be a link in the description. We meet twice a month. We do hot seat coaching, which is each person 10 minutes. And I think for the first 40 people who sign up, you're going to be guaranteed a coaching spot. And we have resources. I've compiled a bunch of things on how to tell a really good story, how to write compelling hooks and lines. We have 52 writing prompts like once a week so you'll always know that you have something to do but not in a way that overwhelms you. [music] I think once a week is a good cadence especially if you're not used to consistently producing content. Look, if you enjoy the kind of content that I produce, if you engage with it on social media, if you like the style in which I deliver things, that's all I'm going to do is I'm going to teach you how to do what I do. Period. Uh, so no engagement groups, no weird black hat stuff. It's all above board white hat. And I don't really care about schedules or posting times and optimizing for any of that. I'm sure some of you want to do that, and that's okay if you do, but my style is when I feel inspired, I write. Luckily, I'm inspired a lot, so I write a lot. I want to help you do that. So, Content Lab, how much does it cost? It's $500 a month. So, that's $6,000 a year. Essentially, if you buy the year plan, which I recommend you do, you basically get two months for free. So, you pay for 10 months, which is five grand. Um, and if you think one new lead, one new prospect is worth five grand, then it's a no-brainer. Okay? And that's it for me. Bye, everybody. >> [music]
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